Moving on is generally used in context with things not working in your favour and you dealing with that by continuing with your life.People usually think that moving on is the next step in a climb but its actually a process which keeps happening.I dont think you just stop moving on, it keeps happening and you come to a level where you learn from it by largely accepting the facts and form your peace with it.You dont surround your life with that one incident but you accomodate that part in your life such that it does not hamper space for other parts or lead you to make wrong decisions.Personally there have been certain instances in my life where i didnt require much time to move on because i realised I wasnt quite involved in that wholeheartedly and there is one specific incident where i keep learning daily from that and am moving on continously.What I’ve learned is that moving on doesnt have a destination where it ends and you unleash yourself in different terriroty, moving on is a journey and that journey of mine is still happening and i dont know if this ends or not but you need to reach a certain checkpoint in that journey where you are comfortable and at peace with whatever happened. Moving on does involve letting go to some extent, letting go of unhealthy emotions and not necessarily everything attached to that specific condition. No one else is responsible for your emotions and actions; it’s ultimately you who is responsible for them. So, you can never blame others for your actions or reactions. Of course, there are exceptions. Sometimes when you move on from a romantic relationship, its difficult to imagine your life without that person but if your love for them was and is genuine, you will stop thinking what they do and start thinking what you feel and you’ll be happy with your love for them and be at peace with it regardless of whether that person is in your life or not.You may still want them in your life but the fact that they are not wont trouble you to a point where you act spontaneously and take hasty decisions.Moving on doesnt mean you unlove that person, I’ve found myself loving that person even more, you just arrive at a point where if your love is genuine and unadulterated, you stop needing them, you become truly independent of them but you still want them.I think you leave it to destiny whether its meant to happen or not. Moving on in itself is a therapeutic journey because if you truly embark on this journey it will force you to reflect on everything you’ve been doing in your life and learn/unlearn certain things about yourself and the world.Personally it has been such a profound journey for me that it completely changed me, it evolved me drastically.I am still moving on but that doesnt mean i start doing completely the opposite of what I’ve been doing, take things casually or what perople like to call’have fun’. Dont let your moving on journey make you shallow as a person or resisitive.Do not ever go in that hole of self pity, it’ll eat you up and you wont even realise it, everyone likes to be a victim.Self pity becomes a reason or a weapon you subconsciously/consciously use to justify your wrong actions that emotionally hurt others. Learn and grow from this because its truly a beautiful journey and if its meant to be, it will happen.I hope it does, living with someone you love is by far the most supreme thing in this universe.
Love and Peace.
Sangram Pawar 